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SarahEL

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From: Minnesota

Registered: 2023-03-09

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Breaking Barriers: The Challenges of Being a Transwoman

As a transwoman, life can be incredibly difficult. From the constant discrimination and prejudice we face, to the fear of violence and harassment, it can sometimes feel like the world is against us.

One of the biggest struggles we face is the lack of understanding and acceptance from society. Many people still view us as "outcasts", and it can be incredibly hard to find a safe and welcoming space where we can be ourselves without fear of judgment or ridicule. Even in supposedly "inclusive" communities, transwomen often face discrimination and exclusion. This is one of the reasons I founded Trans-Action Online.

Another major challenge is the physical and emotional toll that transitioning can take. Hormone therapy and gender reassignment surgeries can be expensive and time-consuming, and even when we do undergo these procedures, the results are not always perfect. Many transwomen struggle with body dysmorphia, anxiety, and depression, as we try to reconcile our inner selves with the bodies we were born into.

And of course, there's the fear of violence and harassment. Transwomen are often targeted for hate crimes, both by strangers on the street and by intimate partners or family members. Many of us live in constant fear for our safety, and the knowledge that so many people out there want to harm us simply for existing can be overwhelming at times.

Despite all these challenges, though, transwomen are some of the strongest, most resilient people I have ever met. We fight every day to be our authentic selves, to live our lives with dignity and respect, and to create a better world for ourselves and for future generations of transgender people. It's not easy, and there are certainly days when we feel like giving up. But we keep going, because we know that our existence matters, and that we have the power to create a better world if we just keep pushing forward.

One of the most challenging aspects of being a transwoman is the constant pressure to conform to societal norms and expectations. We're expected to dress, act, and present ourselves in certain ways, and deviating from those expectations can often lead to harassment and discrimination. Even within the LGBTQ+ community, there can be pressure to "pass" as cisgender and to conform to heteronormative standards of beauty and femininity.

But despite these challenges, there is a growing community of transwomen who are fighting back against the oppressive norms of society. We're pushing for more visibility and acceptance, and we're creating spaces where trans people can feel safe and supported. Whether it's through online communities like this one, activism, or just living our lives openly and unapologetically, we're making a difference in the world.

Of course, there are still many hurdles to overcome. Transgender rights are still not fully recognized or protected in many parts of the world, and transgender people continue to face discrimination and violence on a daily basis. But by sharing our stories and our struggles, we can begin to break down the barriers that have held us back for so long.

Being a transwoman is not easy, but it's also one of the most rewarding and empowering experiences a person can have. We're fighting for our right to exist and to be seen as equals, and we're making progress every day. So to all my fellow transwomen and transmen out there: keep fighting, keep pushing, and keep being your authentic, amazing selves. The world needs you now more than ever.

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Sarahel-slang term: Coming from the Gewada region language in Ethiopia
-when two people are very close friends, it is said to be Sarahel
Ex. Those two really love each other, they are sarahel